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Reduce Stress in 7 Days: A Simple Plan for a Calmer Mind

Reduce Stress in 7 Days: A Simple Plan for a Calmer Mind

If the idea of self-care feels overwhelming, and you’re just trying to reduce stress, I want you to know you’re not alone. So many of my clients tell me they struggle to prioritise themselves.

Life gets busy, stress builds up, and before you know it, you’ve fallen into survival mode—just getting through the day rather than truly living it.

Simple Ways to Reduce Stress Without Overwhelm

And when we finally decide it’s time to start looking after ourselves, it can feel like a huge task. Suddenly, it seems like we need a perfect morning routine, daily journaling, meditation, and an hour of exercise just to feel like we’re doing it right. But that kind of all-or-nothing thinking can be the very thing that stops us from even starting.

Instead of trying to change everything at once, let’s keep it simple.

Seven small steps, one per day, to help you build habits that support your mental health. They don’t take much time, they don’t need any special tools, and they can all be adapted to fit your life.

If you’ve been feeling stuck, disconnected, or like you don’t even know where to start—this is for you.

The 7-Day Plan to Reduce Stress

Day 1: Start with a post-it-note Affirmation

I know that for some people, journaling sounds like a wonderful idea in theory, but in reality, it just feels like another thing to do. So let’s make it easier.

Grab a post-it note. Write down three simple affirmations—things you want to believe about yourself, even if you’re not quite there yet.

Stick it somewhere you’ll see it throughout the day—on your mirror, fridge, or laptop. The words you see regularly start to shape the way you think. This tiny action can start to reduce stress by shifting your mindset over time.

Day 2: Move for Your Mood

One of the biggest things I talk about with my clients is how movement is not just about fitness—it’s about your mental and emotional well-being. And I know that when life is hectic, exercise can feel like a huge task. But it doesn’t have to be.

If you do one thing today, just move. Put on your favourite song and dance around while getting dressed. Stretch for five minutes. Walk while you’re on the phone. Move in a way that feels good, not like a chore.

Your body holds onto stress. When you move, you help it let go.

Day 3: Step Outside and Ground Yourself

Spending time outside is one of the best things you can do for your mental health. Fresh air, natural light, and simply being in nature have been shown to reduce stress and anxiety. But more than that, getting outside gives you a moment to pause.

If you can, take a walk somewhere green—being around trees, water, or open spaces can be deeply grounding.

If you’re feeling anxious or overwhelmed, try this: kick off your shoes and stand on the grass for a moment. Rest your hand against a tree, take a deep breath, and just listen—birds, the wind, even the distant hum of life carrying on around you.

These little moments of connection with nature can bring a kind of calm that’s hard to find when we’re caught up in the busyness of daily life.

Day 4: Mindful Skincare to Reduce Stress and Practise Self-Care

Many of the women I work with struggle to prioritise themselves. Even the idea of self-care can feel indulgent. But I want to remind you that taking care of yourself is not a luxury—it’s essential.  Introducing a skin-care routine is a great way to care for your skin and reduce stress at the same time.

One of the easiest ways to include self-care in your daily routine is through something you’re already doing—your skincare for example. Instead of rushing through it, slow down. Massage your face as you cleanse. Apply your moisturiser with intention. As you do it, take a deep breath and ask yourself: What went well today?

It’s not about expensive products—it’s about making a daily act of care feel meaningful.

Day 5: Square Breathing for Instant Calm

I often teach my clients Square Breathing, a simple but powerful breathwork technique that can instantly help you feel more grounded. It’s something you can do anywhere, anytime, whenever you feel anxious or overwhelmed.

Here’s how it works:

  • Inhale for 4 counts
  • Hold for 4 counts
  • Exhale for 4 counts
  • Hold for 4 counts

Repeat this cycle a few times, and notice how your body starts to relax. Your breath is always there as an anchor—this is a simple way to use it to your advantage.

Day 6: Journaling Lite (No Pressure, Just One Line)

Journaling doesn’t have to mean sitting down for half an hour and pouring your heart out onto the page. If that works for you, great—but if not, here’s a much easier way to do it.

Each night, write down:

  • One thing you’re grateful for
  • One small intention for tomorrow

That’s it—just two sentences. Over time, this practice can help shift your mindset and bring more awareness to the good things in your life. Want more journaling ideas? I’ve shared a few simple tips in a separate blog you might enjoy

Woman meditating by the sea – to reduce stress and find calm through therapy

Day 7: Sensory Self-Care

When we think of treating ourselves, we often reach for the things that give us a quick dopamine hit—wine, chocolate, scrolling on our phones. But what if you could nurture yourself in a way that actually replenishes you, rather than just distracting you?

Try this:

  • Light a candle and enjoy the scent.
  • Play music that makes you feel calm.
  • Wrap yourself in a cosy blanket.
  • Take a warm bath or a long shower.
  • Spend five minutes just being, without a screen in front of you.

Tuning into your senses in this way helps bring you back into the present moment, and that’s often exactly what we need when life feels overwhelming. Sensory self-care isn’t just soothing—it’s a simple, powerful way to reduce stress and reconnect with yourself.

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One Small Step at a Time

That’s it—seven simple, gentle ways to bring more care and calm into your days. No big changes, no pressure to do everything perfectly—just small steps that help you feel more grounded, more present, and more connected to yourself.

Try adding one thing each day for the next week, and see what works for you. Maybe you’ll stick with one, maybe you’ll love them all—but either way, you’re making space for yourself. And that’s something worth celebrating.

RTT for Anxiety, Fears & Low Self-Esteem – A Breakthrough Approach

How RTT Helps You Overcome Anxiety, Phobias & Self-Doubt – 6 Powerful Insights

If you’ve struggled with anxiety, fear, or self-doubt and haven’t found lasting relief, you might be wondering if there’s a more effective way to create real change. Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) is designed to help people overcome deep-rooted issues quickly by rewiring the subconscious mind and breaking unhelpful thought patterns.

Many people turn to RTT after trying traditional talk therapy, CBT, or self-help methods that haven’t delivered the results they were hoping for. Whether you feel stuck in cycles of overthinking, avoid situations due to fear, or struggle with low confidence, RTT provides a fast and lasting transformation by addressing the root cause of these challenges.  Please check my RTT page if you would like to know more about RTT and the process.

Here’s how RTT can help with some of the most common issues that hold people back:

1. Overcoming Anxiety & Breaking Free from Overthinking

Anxiety can feel overwhelming, affecting everything from your confidence at work to your ability to relax in social situations. Many people find themselves trapped in overthinking, replaying conversations, or worrying about the future.

RTT helps by identifying the subconscious beliefs that fuel anxious thoughts and replacing them with more positive, empowering patterns. Through hypnosis, we access the root of your anxiety—whether it stems from childhood experiences, a specific event, or long-standing self-doubt. By rewiring these thought patterns, RTT helps you feel calmer, more in control, and free from the weight of constant worry.

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2. Conquering Phobias & Fears

Fear can be debilitating, stopping you from enjoying life to the fullest. Whether it’s a fear of flying, public speaking, driving, or social situations, phobias can limit opportunities and create unnecessary stress.

RTT works by uncovering the origin of your fear—often a past experience that your mind has attached a strong emotional reaction to. By revisiting and reframing that experience in a safe, controlled way, RTT helps release the fear and replace it with a sense of confidence and ease. Many clients experience a dramatic reduction in their phobia after just one session.

3. Rebuilding Confidence & Self-Worth

If you’ve ever felt like you’re not good enough, doubted your abilities, or struggled with self-criticism, you’re not alone. Low self-esteem can affect relationships, career progression, and general happiness.

RTT helps you uncover where these limiting beliefs started—often in childhood or past experiences—and rewrite them at a subconscious level. Many clients describe RTT as feeling like a ‘mental reset,’ allowing them to step into a version of themselves that is more confident, capable, and self-assured.

A relaxed woman with dark hair wearing headphones, lying on a white sofa with her eyes closed, holding a smartphone. She appears calm and at ease during an RTT hypnotherapy session.

4. Breaking Free from Addictions & Unhealthy Habits

RTT is highly effective for breaking free from unwanted habits such as smoking, vaping, emotional eating, or excessive drinking. Many habits stem from emotional triggers—such as using food or alcohol as a coping mechanism for stress or using nicotine as a way to manage anxiety.

Rather than relying on willpower alone, RTT works by addressing the subconscious reasons behind the habit and rewiring them at their source. Clients often find that cravings significantly reduce or disappear completely after a session.

5. Letting Go of Procrastination & Self-Sabotage

Many people know what they need to do to achieve their goals, yet they find themselves procrastinating, avoiding tasks, or engaging in self-sabotaging behaviours. This is often due to deep-seated beliefs about success, fear of failure, or perfectionism.

RTT helps you break free from these patterns by identifying and reprogramming subconscious beliefs that cause self-sabotage. Clients often experience increased motivation, clarity, and the confidence to take action after just one session.

6. Improving Sleep & Reducing Stress

If you struggle with poor sleep or find it difficult to switch off at night, RTT can help by addressing the subconscious stressors that keep your mind overactive. Whether it’s work stress, personal worries, or general anxiety, RTT enables you to relax more deeply, making it easier to fall asleep and stay asleep.

Through hypnosis, we introduce positive affirmations that promote relaxation, allowing you to develop a healthier relationship with rest. Many clients report feeling more refreshed and energised after just one RTT session focused on sleep

Is RTT Right for You?

If you’ve been struggling with anxiety, fear, or self-doubt and feel ready for a lasting transformation, RTT could be the solution you’ve been looking for. Unlike traditional talk therapy, RTT works quickly—many people notice significant changes after just one to three sessions.

I offer RTT sessions online, making it accessible no matter where you are in the UK. If you’d like to find out whether RTT is the right approach for you, book a free discovery call today.

Alternatively, if you’d like to experience the benefits of hypnosis, take a look at my collection of self-hypnosis recordings, designed to help with anxiety, confidence, and breaking free from unwanted habits.

Final Thoughts

RTT is a powerful tool for transformation, helping you overcome fears, break negative patterns, and step into a more confident version of yourself. If you’ve tried other methods without success, RTT could provide the breakthrough you need.

If you’d like to explore how RTT can support you, visit my services page to learn more, or contact me and take the first step toward lasting change.”

Frequently Asked Questions

What is RTT, and how does it work?

RTT (Rapid Transformational Therapy) is a powerful therapy combining hypnosis, NLP, cognitive behavioural techniques, and regression. It helps uncover and rewire negative subconscious beliefs, creating lasting change in anxiety, fears, and self-esteem.

How many RTT sessions do I need?

Many clients notice significant improvements after just one session, while others may benefit from up to three, depending on their specific challenges.

Is RTT safe?

Yes, RTT is a safe and guided process. You remain in control throughout the session, and it does not involve reliving trauma—only reviewing and reframing past experiences.

Can RTT help with long-term anxiety and fears?

Absolutely. RTT is highly effective for deep-rooted issues, addressing the subconscious causes of anxiety, phobias, and fears. It replaces limiting beliefs with positive, empowering ones.

How can I book an RTT session?

You can book a free discovery call to discuss your needs and see if RTT is right for you. Sessions are held online, making them accessible anywhere in the UK.

Schedule Your Free Discovery Call

Looking for support with anxiety, phobias, or life transitions? I offer counselling, coaching, and RTT to help you move forward with confidence. Book a free 20-minute discovery call via Zoom to explore the best approach for you, wherever you are in the UK.

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